Thursday, June 18, 2009

Time-after exams

Got admission in a college,not IIT's as till then i had accepted the real fact that something more was required for that which i lacked. At that time when some of my friends with whom i used to sit and attend my coaching classes got admission in IIT's the first thing that came to my mind was apart from their hard work,determination and knowledge what things their mother must have given them to eat so that they were able to restore in their mind whatever they studied.

Now i too was happy on accepting the real fact instead of blaming the destiny and cursing my luck. Now started spending time with my cousin Lakshay,who often used to give me tips regarding everything.. I mean studies,behavior,enjoying and most importantly on being satisfied with what you have.

So one day when i was getting bored and when i called him,he told me about registering on a social networking site named
"TAGGED" which came into existence in 2004. It was a new site and i was not aware of it. So when i registered there at first i was confused as i was trying to gather and learn each and every information required to operate it properly.

So i was too happy now as i could find something different. I started looking various profiles(obviously of girls). I searched for many profiles in different cities. I found a most beautiful profile and it was of a girl from Jaipur(the pink city). It was the most beautiful profile amongst those which i saw there.

"Hey !!@@!! Dis is Kushagra from Dehradun. Can v talk if u wish..?"
"hiii..." was the reply from other side.

So we started with the conversation which lasted for about half an hour where i got the opportunity to boast about mine being a nationalist in chess and about my percentage of 12th. A day after too we had a tete-a-tete and now my profile showed that i had a friend in my friend list..

In this way we talked for few days when i became busy with my studies and as my parents wanted me to learn a new language of our coarse. But meanwhile i messaged..

"I'll be coming online and replying your message whenever ur message will come."

So this continued for few months, as i used to check my gmail account occasionally which depicted whether there was a message on my tagged account or not. So as for few days when i din't got any message. And why would she? For how long can the same thing continuous..

Then i opened the account and messaged..
"If this continuous 1ly thing that will happen is ur frnds will reduce from 23 to 22 and mine from 1 to 0.."
"It's not that,u r taking me wrong",
was the reply.

So we started taking again in the same fashion where i was enjoying the talks. She was not having a pic(which my friends call 'dp') on her profile and i too was not having that in my profile. The same thing continued for few days more when my fellow mate asked me to not to believe at girls..

"Gals !!! Damn! Will take you into waters.."

So my utmost care for her reduced thereby and we even had a fight after which i deleted my tagged account. I remember when it asked me the reason for deleting the account,i mentioned

"The people on tagged are no good."

Now i was back with my cousin. We invented new ways to enjoy together. Looking forward and enjoying life to the fullest is the only(1ly) solution to all problems. So we started enjoying each and every moment of life..

The one most important thing i learnt from him and now makes other learn is that..

"A-T-T-I-T-U-D-E" man,its attitude not aptitude,which takes you to altitude..

So have self confidence and instead of following paths constructed and owned by others,discover your own path to success. It's a never ending process.....

2 comments:

  1. Dude, this post took my heart away!

    You write so well! Brilliant is all i can say!
    This post was really awesome compared to the other posts on your blog !

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  2. Thankyou brother.
    Just an attempt to write and be like you..

    regards,
    Kushagra

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