Saturday, June 20, 2009

5 steps to increase your knowledge:

1.>Positivism:- Positivism is a philosophy that holds that the only authentic knowledge is that based on actual sense experience. Positivity i.e,your positive attitude towards diffentent things you want to gain experience from. This will help you a lot not only in understanding the problem but also in crossing overseas.
2.>Confidence-based learning:-Confidence-Based Learning is a methodology used in learning and training that measures a learner's knowledge quality by determining both the correctness of the learner's knowledge and his or her confidence in that knowledge. Confidence must to be appeared in a crowd.
3. >Continuing Professional Development:-Continuing Professional Development can be defined as the conscious updating of professional knowledge and the improvement of professional competence throughout a person's working life. It is a commitment to being professional, keeping up to date and continuously seeking to improve. Being professional is nessesary as the competion is tough and it will help you gain a lot.
4. >Strategies:-Strategy a most important step for completion of our target in a well planned manner. It plays a very important role as it covers time management and the methods and procedures adopted.
5. >Implementation:-Last but not least you have to implement the above steps with great zeal. The success is yours....

Friday, June 19, 2009

Knowledge-The Power

Knowledge.. A very common word.
Knowledge is defined as expertise, and skills acquired by a person through experience or education; the theoretical or practical understanding of a subject. Knowledge can be gained through hard work and awareness about the subject. Once you are clear with what to do and how can we do it then it becomes very easy for us to cope up with it. The goal comes very near to us.
Knowledge includes keywords like perception, learning, communication, association and reasoning. The term knowledge is also used to mean the confident understanding of a subject with the ability to use it for a specific purpose if appropriate.Debates,speeches,articles,intervies contribute a lot to your knowledge.If any work is started with full confidence thinking that my friend who is perfect now had once started like me..So it becomes very easy for us to do any work watever it is!!!

The key sentense is...
HARDWORK WITH FULL DETERMINATION LEADS TO SUCCESS..

Inspiration ~ is what we need...

A prompt by a novel made me think about me. Why not to write something about me...

The following two articles from My life. "12th...huh.." and "Life after exams", what i feel to write about me.

I love.........my life..

Below it is "Knowledge~its easy. ",really feel it's easy...

After taking inspiration from a novel "I too had a love story",by Ravinder Singh i wrote the following two articles..

The 3rd one is what i feel in general and my motivation...

A favourite thing,i mean realy favourite is a think which you like others to see and praise it. It is the thing which you want others to say it's beautiful...

A simple thing which will make you laugh...

Should I work hard?
Should I be not reckless?
Should I be disciplined?
Should I stop flirting?

Just ask youself.....
....... i mean why should i ??? :-)

Isn't it funny... If no then you have to work upon it!!!

Thursday, June 18, 2009

Twelth... huh..

Our exams were about to come and there was studies,studies and studies all over. Curiousity for compititive exams for giving them for the first time was on a top hill. Hard work was the expections from me by everyone. The major reason was my mumma was also in the same school in which i was studying. So i could not do any such task for which my mumma has to feel guilt for. Moreover i was not interesting in anything else apart from my studies.
So it was like all work and no play makes jack a dull boy. That moment i was jealous of my friends on having enjoying with thier beautiful girlfriends. But i was stick to my mumma's words.

I remember she often used to say me
"Never spoil ur life after girls. N-E-V-E-R".
I too wanted to study as apart from my 12th, i had study for various compititive exams as well. In which IIT's was on the top.

So days passed like that,i was regular at my school rather had to be and after my return from school i had to board for my coaching classes. At first i was very serious for that and when time paased on looking such a vast syllabus,still managed to had confidence to cover it.

In my class i used to sit with my friend Avinash,as the neccesity made him my friend. Actually his father too was a teacher in our school and he used to teach us physics one of my favourite subject.

Avinash was very good at interaction specially with girls.. I often used to ask him and rather used to take tips too that how he can talk continuosly for so long with a girl. And even with them too,whom he started taking hours before or a day before.

"yaar kya baat r these all girls your friends??"
"Haan yehi samaj le, beta u carry on with your studies.. i just love to talk with them."

i mummered slowly,"do your father know all about it?".
He confidently answered,"yeah i am very frank with my father. i share each and everything with my father."

I intentionally asked him this and that too about his father because i think his father would be the most dangerous in his family and its always been said that father is the head of the family.

I said
"Good".. though i was thinking how he could do all that. Because in my case i could not tell all this of even of my fellow mate to my parents then what about if i"ll tell anything such about me.


So days were passing and our exams were coming near and near. So were our preparation. We gave our pre-boards. I could not perform well in that but there was a sigh of relief as we were having one more. So i prepared hard for that as my parents were also worried a lot about me and they told me to just concentrate on your 12th studies.. My father was more worried about my marks but my mother still had a faith on me that i"ll somehow manage to get good marks.


The time for our boards was near so the tensions increased (not for me but for my parents) as i wanted to concentarte more on my compititive studies. So once when my father saw me studying those books,he warned me to close those books and to concentrate only on NCERT's. So i too had to made up my mind for studying only for boards..


So now my tensions increased and started working to reduce them. But at the same time my confidence was still high only though movies which i used to watch ocassionally.


Then came the time for boards. Exams started and everyone was wishing good luck and giving tips to get good mark. Apart from studing hard i started counting the days left to study from now onwards. (which i always used to say my mom this counting figure is more left to study, a sort of reverse counting). For a particular exam i woked only for it forgetting completely my rest of the exams,giving my 100% which i could. So the days paased like this and the willingness to enjoy a lot after the exams made it more easy..

Time-after exams

Got admission in a college,not IIT's as till then i had accepted the real fact that something more was required for that which i lacked. At that time when some of my friends with whom i used to sit and attend my coaching classes got admission in IIT's the first thing that came to my mind was apart from their hard work,determination and knowledge what things their mother must have given them to eat so that they were able to restore in their mind whatever they studied.

Now i too was happy on accepting the real fact instead of blaming the destiny and cursing my luck. Now started spending time with my cousin Lakshay,who often used to give me tips regarding everything.. I mean studies,behavior,enjoying and most importantly on being satisfied with what you have.

So one day when i was getting bored and when i called him,he told me about registering on a social networking site named
"TAGGED" which came into existence in 2004. It was a new site and i was not aware of it. So when i registered there at first i was confused as i was trying to gather and learn each and every information required to operate it properly.

So i was too happy now as i could find something different. I started looking various profiles(obviously of girls). I searched for many profiles in different cities. I found a most beautiful profile and it was of a girl from Jaipur(the pink city). It was the most beautiful profile amongst those which i saw there.

"Hey !!@@!! Dis is Kushagra from Dehradun. Can v talk if u wish..?"
"hiii..." was the reply from other side.

So we started with the conversation which lasted for about half an hour where i got the opportunity to boast about mine being a nationalist in chess and about my percentage of 12th. A day after too we had a tete-a-tete and now my profile showed that i had a friend in my friend list..

In this way we talked for few days when i became busy with my studies and as my parents wanted me to learn a new language of our coarse. But meanwhile i messaged..

"I'll be coming online and replying your message whenever ur message will come."

So this continued for few months, as i used to check my gmail account occasionally which depicted whether there was a message on my tagged account or not. So as for few days when i din't got any message. And why would she? For how long can the same thing continuous..

Then i opened the account and messaged..
"If this continuous 1ly thing that will happen is ur frnds will reduce from 23 to 22 and mine from 1 to 0.."
"It's not that,u r taking me wrong",
was the reply.

So we started taking again in the same fashion where i was enjoying the talks. She was not having a pic(which my friends call 'dp') on her profile and i too was not having that in my profile. The same thing continued for few days more when my fellow mate asked me to not to believe at girls..

"Gals !!! Damn! Will take you into waters.."

So my utmost care for her reduced thereby and we even had a fight after which i deleted my tagged account. I remember when it asked me the reason for deleting the account,i mentioned

"The people on tagged are no good."

Now i was back with my cousin. We invented new ways to enjoy together. Looking forward and enjoying life to the fullest is the only(1ly) solution to all problems. So we started enjoying each and every moment of life..

The one most important thing i learnt from him and now makes other learn is that..

"A-T-T-I-T-U-D-E" man,its attitude not aptitude,which takes you to altitude..

So have self confidence and instead of following paths constructed and owned by others,discover your own path to success. It's a never ending process.....